”Fertility challenges can be some of the hardest times a woman or couple face. And while none of this is one bit fair, the good news is I’d love to help — and I can.”
You have two voices.
There’s a good chance you have two voices in your head. One voice is saying ‘do more,’ ‘work harder’ or ‘do whatever it takes to beat this!’ This part of you calculates a thousand ifs and whens per day. As you are reading this, this voice is whispering in your ear, ‘maybe there’s just one more supplement we should be taking right now.’
Then there’s another part of you. This is the other voice in your head. This one is saying they’re sick and tired of putting life on hold. ‘You know better!’ it shouts. This voice wishes there was some switch that could make you stop caring so much! It’s desperate to get off the roller coaster of hope and grief and reminds you that your life used to feel pretty amazing until "trying" took over.
But just when you think it's time to start listening to this voice, the first one chimes back in ‘you’re only getting older.’ And there isn’t a switch. And you do still care.
The struggle between these two voices is real. For most, "trying" eventually feels at odds or even incompatible with enjoying life and being in balance. Did you know research has actually shown trying to conceive for 2+ years leaves women with as high or even higher levels of anxiety and depression as having cancer? Yet, if you had cancer, others would kinda know what to say. They’d bring you meals and flowers.With fertility — not so much.
I promise you — the two voices can make peace.
In fact, they need to make peace if you really want a healthy baby that has a healthy mom and parent. You must find a balance that really works — between being proactive and also letting go. So we'll work as a team.
Together we'll explore the choices you can make that will give you real time results and empower you to feel good about letting go of things that stress you out. You’ll feel better, supported, sane ... and fertility will follow. Instead of merely forcing a fix you’ll cultivate true wellness, and the results are a healthier, vibrant, thriving baby, mom and family - and that is the real goal.
I know I can help.