LET’S TALK OBGYN SURGERIES AND RECOVERY
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, C-section, and more.
If you’re planning a fertility or OBGYN surgery, here’s what you need to set yourself up for a swift and more comfy recovery. This information is based on my notes from my own surgery and I hope you find it helpful — that’s the Life Healing Life of it all!
Gather TLC supplies.
I recommend getting as many of the following options ahead of time depending on what feels appropriate and appealing to you.
Weighted eye-pillow calms the nervous system and helps with naps
Miralax / Colase because surgery slows down the bowels
Liquid Floradix iron supplement for rebuilding after blood loss
TENS unit for pain management, pelvic circulation for recovery, and more
Ice packs and battery-powered heated blanket
Plum Flower Herbs Great Mender formula for healing tissue trauma if you get an okay from your providers
Brown or white noise app
Pre and post surgery meditations — try Nancy Hopps or Bellaruth Naperstek
Aromatherapy you find soothing
Audiobooks for listening to with your eyes closed
Silicone scar tape or sheets once stitches are out and wound has closed
Knee wedge pillow plus extra comfy pillows
Nausea wrist bands if you tend to get queasy
Extra big pants with a loose waistband if you’ll have incisions on your abdomen
This next suggestion isn’t DIY, but ask your care team about transverse abdominis pain blocks — aka TAP Blocks. This is a well-studied fabulous alternative to opiates for post-operative abdominal pain. Meta analysis shows they are less addictive, provide better pain management, and can cause less nausea and grogginess.
Adjust your options based on your own preferences, specific surgery, location, time of year — you name it! Get customized and add whatever will make your recovery set-up feel extra relaxing and calm. I added candles, flowers, and some mantra cards. You might want a humidifier, fan, luxurious lip balm and lotion. You do you!
Make a plan to lay low.
It can be hard to lay low and relax for more than a day or two, but healing is taxing. So do your best to honor that and rest, rest, rest. Take some time off work. Take naps. Skip the gym and try a mellow walk instead. It’s WAY better to fully chill out and heal up-front than drag out your recovery and suffer set-backs.
“Rest isn’t a reward for the work; it’s part of the work.”
- Leesa Renee Hall
If you need some encouragement and inspiration on the importance of rest and recovery, check out some further reading at the end of this post.
Power your recovery.
Easy-to-digest nourishing foods are great for healing. If you’re nauseated start slow. Add Jell-o or gelatin (makes my inner eight year old happy), bone broth for collagen and nutrients, light soups, dumplings, or congees.
It’s okay if you’re craving cold too. It’s all about listening to your unique body. If ice water or popsicles sound appealing — go for it! But if you aren’t craving cold, try to stick with cooked and warm foods and drinks.
And say an enthusiastic ‘yes’ if friends and family offer to drop off food, cook for you, or give you a gift card. Easy meals that are from your support network are great medicine!
Stay Hydrated with Healing Teas
Ginger for nausea or chills — call your clinic right away if you have a fever
Raspberry Leaf for uterine cramps or pain
Peppermint for bloating, stomach aches, headaches
Chamomile for anxiety, sleep, rest
Not a tea, but Green Juice plus Miralax in a small shot glass can be a nice boost if you’re constipated too.
Simple Healing Congee Recipe
Cook 1 cup oatmeal, rice, or other simple grain with 4 to 7 cups water or broth for a long time until the grain is very soft and soupy. Add more liquid as needed until the grains start to shred and look like thin porridge.
Store in the fridge for up to 3 days or freeze for later!
You can serve it with additional toppings:
Sweet: Walnuts, dried fruit, berries, cinnamon, ginger, brown sugar, milk of choice, yogurt, etc.
Savory: Poached or scrambled eggs, scallions, kimchi, nuts, shredded meat, beans, herbs, steamed veggies, salt and pepper, miso, soy sauce, etc.
Using a TENS unit for pain and recovery.
TENS treatments are non-invasive, cost-effective, fantastic ways to decrease pain, promote pelvic circulation, calm the nervous system, and more. All in the comfort of your own bed! To dive into specific acupressure and TENS treatment lessons sign-up for my free DIY Acupressure Guide. It has a glossary for all kinds of symptoms.
In addition to the points in that guide, you can always add local treatment over the abdomen or lower back. Just avoid putting TENS pads directly over or across incisions and follow the directions for safety. If you have incisions on your abdomen, a great technique is to use it on your back!
TENS units can be easily purchased online for under $100. I use the CUREVE brand myself — and please know I don’t make any money from them. But you can use the code TBYW10 to get 10% off their site. I use my TENS for muscle tension, cramps, headaches, and more. They’re a great investment!
TENS unit settings to try:
2 - 4 Hz — Releases beta endorphins for relaxation and ACTH to decrease inflammation
10 - 15 Hz — Releases Enkaphalin for pain inhibition
40 Hz — Inhibits Substance P to decrease pain
50 Hz — Generates stem cells for healing
80 Hz — Improves pelvic circulation and GABA to promote healing and decrease anxiety
100 Hz — Releases Dynorphin for emotional balance, pain management, and stress reduction
200 Hz — Increases serotonin for antidepressant effect
300 Hz — Releases Acetylcholine for moving into rest and digest mode
Wishing you a smooth surgery and speedy recovery!
Nicole
FURTHER READING
Why Are We So Bad at Getting Better? is a great 2023 New Yorker article about the importance of rest for recovery
Recovery: The Lost Art of Convalescence is a fabulous book to read before or listen to during your re-cooperation
The First 40 Days - The Essential Art of Nourishing a New Mother is an amazing book for recovering from childbirth with or without a cesarean
The “Mother” Lode is my very own getting ready for birth and postpartum blog post and suggestions list
Nicole Lange
LICENSED ACUPUNCTURIST
HOLISTIC FERTILITY EDUCATOR
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